Sarah McBride is the first openly transgender person elected to the U.S. Congress, but she is not the first trans politician to be banned from using the bathroom of her choice by a hostile fellow lawmaker.
Back in 2006 in Italy, newly elected Vladimir Luxuria was briefly barred from using the ladies’ room when she took her seat in Parliament. She said her heart breaks for McBride, a Democrat from Delaware.
“They did that to me,” Luxuria, 59, said in a telephone interview with NBC News from her home in Rome. “What is happening to Sarah McBride is rank politics.”
Which bathroom McBride will be able to use in the next Congress became an issue last week when Rep. Nancy Mace, a South Carolina Republican and staunch supporter of President-elect Donald Trump, introduced a resolution to prohibit lawmakers and House employees from “using single-sex facilities other than those corresponding to their biological sex.”
When asked if the move was specifically in response to McBride, Mace said, “yes and absolutely, and then some.” Not long afterward, House Speaker Mike Johnson, who is also a Republican and a Trump supporter, said he supports restricting “single-sex facilities” in the Capitol, including restrooms, to “individuals of that biological sex.”
Delaware Rep.-elect Sarah McBride
McBride, in a post on X, responded, “Every day Americans go to work with people who have life journeys different than their own and engage with them respectfully, I hope members of Congress can muster that same kindness.”
Luxuria, who left Parliament in 2008 and is an actress and activist, was following in the footsteps of the late Georgina Beyer, a New Zealander who became the world’s first openly transgender member of Parliament when she was elected in 1999.
The only other transgender woman who has served in a national parliament is Poland’s Anna Grodzka, who was elected in 2011 and served one four-year term.
Luxuria said she had endured a lifetime of “cruelty” but was still shocked when Italian lawmaker Elisabetta Gardini, who was a supporter of then-Prime Minister Silvio Berlusconi, confronted her “outside the women’s toilet.”
“I always went to the women’s bathroom because if I even tried to use the men’s toilet they would be embarrassed and demand to know what I am doing there,” Luxuria said. “So when I came out, I was surprised when Gardini began yelling at me, ‘What were you doing in here! You’re a man!'”
Luxuria said Gardini “was very angry” but she was determined not to back down.
She said she told Gardini: “OK, I am a trans woman. But if you don’t want to see me in here, you should go use the men’s toilet.”
Luxuria said Gardini walked off in a huff and in no time “the matter of where I could go to the bathroom became a debate in Parliament.”
“I was lucky because, in the end, the members of Parliament decided I could use the women’s bathroom,” she said. “But it was embarrassing that it became an issue.”
Luxuria said she has her suspicions about why Gardini, who was a well-known actress and popular TV personality before she got into politics, went after her.
“I suspect Berlusconi’s party wanted to make this an issue to attack my party, which was in opposition,” she said. “So I am very sympathetic to Sarah McBride.”
Gardini did not respond to an email seeking comment.
Noting that Mace once described herself as a pro-LGBTQ social moderate, Luxuria said she thinks Mace’s attack on McBride was part of a bigger plan to try to divide Democrats and force them to defend an issue that still makes many Americans “uncomfortable.”
“The purpose here is to generate hate for political purposes,” Luxuria said.
McBride and Mace did not reply to NBC News’ request for comment.
In the aftermath of Vice President Kamala Harris’ loss to Trump, some Democrats and pundits have pointed to the Biden administration’s support for transgender rights as one reason Republicans prevailed.
They noted that the Republicans spent more than $200 million on network television advertisements that underscored Harris’ past support for taxpayer-funded gender-affirming care treatments and that repeatedly aired during NFL and college football games.
During her four years in the Polish Parliament, Grodzka also faced verbal attacks and was repeatedly misgendered by fellow Polish lawmaker Krystyna Pawlowicz. In an interview with Pink News, an LGBTQ digital news outlet based in Britain, in 2013, Grodzka largely brushed off the transphobic comments.
“Krystyna is a very conservative person, therefore I guess I am probably just a little bit too much for her,” Grodza said. “She has an imaginary idea of a [perfect] person who is supposed to go to church, etc. … In that case I ruin her picture, therefore it’s a reason for her to attack me.”
In recent years — nearly a decade after she left Parliament — Grodzka is still occasionally on the receiving end of personal attacks from Polish lawmakers, as the country’s right-wing has embraced anti-LGBTQ sentiments.
In a 2002 documentary about Beyer called “Georgie Girl,” Beyer said she commonly faced questions about her gender identity that other politicians would not have to endure.
“I get asked questions no other politician would ever have to answer,” she said. “Regarding the surgery, you know. ‘Did it hurt?’ or, ‘When you have sex now as a woman, is it different to how you had sex as a man?’ Well, honey, obviously.”
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